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Is Sadhana Selfish? Lessons on Duty and Practice

Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
Oct 8, 2026
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A machine-transcribed Q&A, eight minutes long and punctuated by applause, is an unlikely place to find a clear teaching. Yet a 2026 video from Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, posted under the title "How to overcome Pitru Dosh?", holds one: when a person feels squeezed between competing demands, whether work, family, practice, or a difficult spouse, the answer offered is less about choosing between them and more about recognizing that the practice can already live inside the demand. The video's headline question about pitru dosh is only partly answered, because the captions for that segment are fragmentary. The rest of the material is consistent enough to be worth unpacking, and this piece does that, while flagging where the transcript cannot carry the weight.

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What do you do when your 100 percent never feels like enough?

The first questioner describes eighteen years in the same role. Their competence feels stalled, and even full effort seems insufficient to the organization. "This is disturbing me deeply," they say, and ask how to move forward.

The answer does not argue with the assessment. It changes the variable. Learning, he says, should never stop, and enthusiasm and good spirit are what keep a person upgrading. He then makes a practical suggestion: diversify. If you are bored doing just one thing, develop other skills and do other things as well.

"You can upscale yourself all the time and you need to. Learning should never stop." (Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, in the video, 0:23)

What is notable is what he leaves out. He does not address how the organization judges performance, and he does not promise the feeling will resolve. He treats boredom as information rather than failure. A person who has run out of growth in one channel is being told, in effect, to open another. For a reader in a long-tenured job, the useful move is to stop measuring progress only against the role's ceiling and start measuring it against one's own widening capacity.

Is it selfish to put my own sadhana first when family is suffering?

The second question is sharper and more personal. It asks whether it is selfish to spend time on one's own sadhana when family members are suffering or unwell. Here the answer has a clear order.

First, the premise is rejected: your sadhana is not opposed to your service to people at home. Second, if you are able, find time for practice and then attend to your duties. Third, and without hedging, if someone is unwell, attend to them first.

"You should not think your sadhana is opposing your service to people at home." (Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, in the video, 1:07)

Then comes the reframing that gives the answer its force. Sadhana, he says, is not a separate room in the day. "If you say no, I am going to do sadhana, no. Life is a sadhana." Walking, talking, sitting, doing anything, he says, can itself be sadhana. Service, too, is sadhana.

Read closely, this is a claim about attention rather than schedule. If practice is defined by the quality with which you do something, then tending to a sick relative is not an interruption of practice. It is one of its forms. The sequence he gives, with the immediate need first, prevents the reframing from becoming an excuse. The person who is unwell comes before the timetable.

Can you meditate at all when you have no time?

A third questioner's complaint is simply that there is no time. The answer is practical and somewhat playful. Ideally, he suggests, you do not meditate just before sleep, because meditating and then getting up to do other things will leave you unable to sleep. But if time is truly tight, sit as soon as you wake, or spend a few minutes just before bed and go straight to sleep without getting up again.

"If you meditate, get up and do other things, then you will feel you cannot sleep. Your sleep will be gone." (Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, in the video, 1:48)

The apparent contradiction, first "you should not meditate just before sleep" and then "meditate just before sleep," resolves on a reading of the second half: the concern is what you do after meditation, not meditation itself. Meditation followed directly by rest is fine. Meditation followed by a restart of the day is what disturbs sleep.

The closing line of that answer carries the video's central thread: "There are so many options. You don't have to think, oh, I have no time. It's all just in your mind." That is a demanding claim, and a reader will hear it as either liberating or dismissive depending on their situation. The practical content is that scheduling is more flexible than most people assume, and that the sense of having no time is often a story rather than a fact of the calendar.

What if the family has done every ritual and pitru dosh still remains?

This is the question the video's title advertises, and it is where the transcript is least reliable. A questioner says that the family has followed the prescribed shraddha rituals for many years, yet is still told there is pitru dosh in the situation, and asks what the right approach or lesson is.

The captions for the reply are fragmentary. The audible pieces are a brief opening, "Don't worry," followed by a list that appears to include pranayama, meditation, and chanting, then a phrase the transcript renders as "sang gur" and a closing fragment about "all the doshas." Applause interrupts repeatedly. I cannot reliably reconstruct a remedy from this, and I have not tried to. Anyone looking for the exact guidance should watch the original segment, which begins around 2:40, and check it against a verified transcript or the teacher's own published material.

What can be said with confidence is the stance the captions do support. The answer begins by telling the family not to worry, and it points toward breath practice, meditation, and chanting as the means. It does not, in the audible portion, contest the questioner's account of their own rituals. A reader who expects a clean fix here will be disappointed, but the pattern is consistent with the rest of the video: the response moves attention from the anxiety to the practice.

How do you live peacefully with a husband who is always right?

The next question is a domestic one. How does a person live peacefully with an intellectual husband who always believes he is right? The reply is a joke, and the room treats it as one.

"Agree with him. You are really bright and I am brighter than you." (Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, in the video, 3:39)

The line works because it is absurd in the way that disarms. It declines the contest of who is smarter entirely. The point, underneath the laughter, is that a fight over being right is one a person can simply stop entering. Read seriously, it is advice about the ego's appetite for winning arguments, offered with a light touch rather than a lecture.

Can a spiritual teacher predict events before they happen?

The final question asks whether he knows about certain events before they happen. The questioner offers a menu of possible explanations: knowledge and experience, including what they describe as 45 years of running a large organization such as the Art of Living; greater clarity and a peaceful mind that lets one see situations in more detail; a combination; or something else entirely. The 45-year figure is the questioner's, and the transcript does not verify it.

"Ah, is something else entirely." (Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, in the video, 7:17 onward)

He takes the last option and moves on: "Come, we will go to something else now." The refusal to elaborate is itself instructive. The video does not present foresight as a skill to be developed or a claim to be defended. It leaves the question unexplained, and so should a reader who wants a mechanism.

What ties these answers together?

Across the video the same three moves recur. Pressure is named without being argued with: the 100 percent that is not enough, the family that is suffering, the time that seems absent, the husband who will not yield. Then the frame widens so that the pressure becomes part of practice. Learning is the practice of the working life. Service is sadhana. Meditation can fit around sleep and waking. Finally, where a question invites a grand claim, the answer declines to inflate itself.

None of this resolves the harder cases in the transcript, least of all the pitru dosh question. But it gives a reader a usable habit: when a demand feels like it is competing with your inner life, check whether the inner life can be expressed through the demand before you conclude that you must give up one for the other.

Where to go from here

Watch the original video for the exact wording of each answer, especially the pitru dosh reply, which the captions cannot carry. Because the machine transcript is incomplete, verify any line you plan to quote against a corrected transcript or the speaker's published teachings. For a fuller picture of how Sri Sri Ravi Shankar talks about sadhana, service, and the place of practice in ordinary life, look for his longer talks on those subjects, where the ideas here get the room to develop.

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[0:01] Gurudev I have been working in the same

[0:03] role for 18 years and at this stage I'm

[0:06] struggling to improve my competence. I

[0:09] feel that even my 100% is not enough for

[0:12] the organization and this is disturbing

[0:15] me deeply. How should I deal with this

[0:17] and move forward?

[0:22] [clears throat]

[0:23] Listen, you can upscale yourself all the

[0:27] time and you need to. Learning should

[0:29] never stop.

[0:31] You know, if you have enthusiasm, if you

[0:34] have good spirit, you can keep upgrading

[0:36] yourself.

[0:38] Diversify your skills.

[0:41] Yeah. If you are not um if you are bored

[0:45] doing just one thing, you develop other

[0:48] skills and do other things also.

[0:51] Yeah.

[0:54] Gurudv is it selfish to spend time on my

[0:57] own sadha when my family members are

[0:59] suffering or unwell.

[1:07] You know you first you should not think

[1:10] your sadena is

[1:13] uh opposing

[1:15] your service to people at home

[1:19] that is not so if you are complimentary

[1:22] find some time to do sad and then take

[1:27] care of your duty someone is not well

[1:29] attend to them first

[1:32] that is important if you say no I am

[1:33] going to do sadena no life is a sadena

[1:37] Now

[1:38] walking, talking, sitting,

[1:41] doing anything uh doing sava is also

[1:44] sad.

[1:48] Yeah. And anyway you sleep at home

[1:51] before sleeping you sit and meditate or

[1:56] actually just before sleep you should

[1:58] not meditate. But if you have got no

[2:01] time at all, as soon as you wake up, you

[2:04] sit and meditate

[2:06] or just few minutes before

[2:10] you go to sleep, you meditate and

[2:12] immediately should go to sleep. If you

[2:15] meditate, get up and do other things,

[2:18] then you will feel you you cannot sleep.

[2:22] Your sleep will be gone.

[2:25] So

[2:27] there are so many options.

[2:31] You don't have to think oh

[2:34] you know I have no time. It's all just

[2:37] in your mind.

[2:40] Gurudev my family has followed all the

[2:42] prescribed sharad rituals for many

[2:44] years. Yet we are still told that there

[2:47] is pru in such a situation. What is the

[2:51] right approach or solution?

[2:54] What's that? What's the lesson?

[2:57] >> We have followed all the prescribed

[2:59] sharat rituals for many years.

[3:02] >> Yet we are told that there is pitru.

[3:05] What is the solution?

[3:09] Don't worry

[3:12] every will go you do pranayama

[3:15] meditation

[3:17] chanting

[3:18] [applause] that is

[3:24] and do sang gur when you'll see all the

[3:32] [applause]

[3:32] jur all the dshas will

[3:39] Gurv, how does one live peacefully with

[3:42] an intellectual husband who always

[3:44] believes that he's right?

[3:53] Agree with him. You are really bright

[3:55] and I am brighter than you. You tell him

[3:58] [applause]

[4:00] said I I do agree. You are

[4:02] intellectually super but I am brighter

[4:04] than you.

[4:07] That's it. Okay. Hindi

[4:12] guru

[4:25] theme.

[4:40] Mary,

[4:45] our mom

[4:57] Person.

[5:14] Guru Dave Tatwami.

[5:25] forch.

[5:59] Guru Mahay sar

[6:17] maya.

[6:19] Maya

[6:56] May

[7:15] Guro

[7:17] Uh my question is uh do you something

[7:19] know about c certain events before they

[7:22] actually happen? Uh it is because of

[7:24] your knowledge and experience especially

[7:26] the experience you have gained over 45

[7:29] years of successfully running such a

[7:31] large organization like art of living or

[7:34] it is because you have greater clarity

[7:36] in life and a peaceful mind uh which

[7:39] allows you to observe things in greater

[7:41] detail and therefore predict situation

[7:43] more accurately or it is combination of

[7:46] all factors or it perhaps something else

[7:50] entirely. Ah is something else entirely.

[7:56] [applause]

[8:02] Come we will go to something else now.

[8:07] [applause]

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In this talk, Sri Sri Ravi Shankar says you should not think your sadhana opposes service to people at home. If someone is unwell, he says to attend to them first, and if you have time afterward, practice. He also frames life itself as sadhana, so caring for family can be a form of practice.
He says yes: walking, talking, sitting, and doing anything can be sadhana, and so can service. The point is that practice is defined by the quality of attention you bring, not only by a dedicated meditation session.
The answer is nuanced. He says the ideal is not to meditate just before sleep, since getting up afterward can disturb rest. If time is short, he suggests meditating as soon as you wake, or for a few minutes before bed and then going straight to sleep.
The captions for that answer are fragmentary, so a full remedy cannot be reliably reconstructed from the transcript. The audible parts point toward not worrying and toward practices such as pranayama, meditation, and chanting. Watch the original segment for exact wording.
He advises that learning should never stop and that enthusiasm and good spirit let you keep upgrading yourself. If you are bored doing one thing, he suggests developing other skills and doing other things as well.
His reply in the video is a light joke: agree with him, tell him he is really bright, and say you are brighter. The underlying idea is to decline the contest over who is right rather than fight it.

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