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Sacred Feminine in Buddhism:Reclaiming the Divine

Drala Mountain Center
Drala Mountain Center
Aug 23, 2015
7 min read
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The world is out of balance. Ecological crisis, fractured relationships, and lives splintered across competing demands—these are the symptoms. But beneath them lies something less visible and rarely named in spiritual circles: the systematic absence of the sacred feminine. This absence, Lama Tsultrim Allione argues, is not incidental to our predicament. It is central. And Buddhism, which contains within its tantric traditions the most sophisticated teachings on the feminine the world has known, is being called to remember what it once awakened.

This is the spine of Wisdom Rising, a four-day retreat held in September 2015 and led by some of Buddhism's most accomplished female teachers. But the conference is not simply about gender parity—though that matters urgently. It is about recovering a cosmology, a way of relating to the body, to nature, and to the sacred itself that was nearly lost when Buddhism traveled from India to Tibet and then to the West, each transition narrowing the space for the feminine.

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The Tantric Opening

To understand why the sacred feminine needs reawakening, you have to know what happened in India around 700 CE. The tantric period had begun—a revolution within Buddhism itself. Before this, the feminine had made only tentative appearances. In the Mahayana period, Prajna Paramita (the Perfection of Wisdom) was identified as feminine, though as Allione notes, wisdom itself transcends gender. But she was there, identified with capacity, with knowing. In the tantric turn, everything opened. Female Buddhas emerged. Dakinis—the wisdom beings of Buddhist tantra—took their place in the sacred landscape. Tara, Bhagavati, Simhamuka, and other female deities became not ornamental but essential to the path.

With this feminine presence came a complete inversion of how the body and the senses were understood. Earlier Buddhist teaching, influenced by the Buddha's own emphasis on cessation—the escape from suffering—tended toward renunciation of the embodied life. Nirvana meant cessation, getting out of the mess. The body, nature, and women themselves were not sacred; they were part of what needed to be transcended. This created a profound split: the spiritual was somewhere else, somewhere up and out, divorced from the earth.

Tantra healed this split. In tantric Buddhism, sacred sexuality and embodied practice became vehicles for liberation, not obstacles to it. The senses, the body, the very earth became not things to escape but gateways to the sacred. This is what Allione calls the sacralization of embodiment—the recognition that life itself is not a problem to solve but a mystery to enter more fully. It is why, in tantric practice, objects around you are sacred, why holidays can be re-sacralized through gratitude, why what appears ordinary becomes pregnant with meaning.

What Is the Divine Feminine?

To try to define the sacred feminine is to immediately run into its essential nature: it is ineffable. Prajna Paramita, Allione notes, is described in the Heart Sutra as inconceivable and unexplainable. Yet we can point toward it.

One quality is the sacralization of embodiment itself—the understanding that preciousness and sacredness live in the body, in nature, in matter. This stands in direct contrast to religions organized around the divine masculine, which tend to place the sacred elsewhere, beyond the body, beyond the world. Women and nature have been cast as obstacles to reaching that transcendent state.

Another is connectedness. Buddhist teaching often frames attachment as the root of suffering (the Second Noble Truth), but the sacred feminine values relationship itself as sacred. There is a difference—one Allione emphasizes—between attachment, grasping, and craving on one hand, and genuine connectedness, appreciation, and relationship on the other. The feminine holds both: it honors relationship not as a problem to overcome but as a dimension of what makes life precious. This extends beyond human connection: it includes our relationship with animals, with nature, with the world itself.

A third dimension is spaciousness. The space element in Buddhist philosophy—the ground of being, all-pervasive emptiness—is understood as a feminine quality. This is not emptiness as void or negation, but as the open, receptive field in which all phenomena arise, the pregnant silence from which all manifestation emerges.

From Tantra to Tibet: How the Feminine Faded

The tantric efflorescence lasted roughly five hundred years, from around 700 CE to 1200, after which Buddhism declined in India itself. But before it did, Tibetan teachers traveled to India and brought back the complete tantric teachings, including the divine feminine, to Tibet.

What happened next is the heart of the problem. Tibet was a patriarchal feudal society. The monastic institutions that became central to Tibetan Buddhism were almost entirely male. The lineages that preserved the teachings became male-dominated. Yes, Allione notes, there were women teachers—Yeshe Tsogyel, Drikung Drubchen, a few others—but when you count them, you run out. The gap is immense.

Theoretically, the teachings remained. In iconography and in subtle philosophy, the union of masculine and feminine, the equality of male and female principles, was preserved. But sociologically, in how Buddhism actually functioned as a living institution, the feminine largely disappeared. The theory was beautiful; the practice was patriarchal. And this was not a failure unique to Tibet. When Buddhism arrived in the West, the same pattern held. There are now many accomplished female Buddhist teachers in Western Buddhism—a real shift—but much of the institutional power and recognition still flows along male channels.

Why This Matters Now

The rebalancing is not metaphorical. Allione points out that wherever the masculine has dominated religion, nature has been degraded. This is not coincidental. A spirituality that devalues the body, the senses, the earth, and the feminine as obstacles to the divine creates the psychological and theological conditions for exploiting all three. Conversely, to reawaken the sacred feminine is to simultaneously remember that the world is not something to escape but something to honor, that women are not lesser but equal carriers of wisdom, that our bodies and the living earth are not problems but sacred ground.

This is why Wisdom Rising exists. It is why Allione has collaborated with Eve Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues and other works exploring feminine power and dignity, to bring this conversation out of academic Buddhism and into the world. The movement is already happening globally, within Buddhism and beyond it. But it requires recognition, intention, and sustained effort, especially from those—including men—who recognize that a balanced world requires both.

Practice as Reawakening

Wisdom Rising includes guided meditations and practices. One accessible entry point is Tara practice. Tara, available and direct, is considered highly accessible. When you sit with her, you recognize that objects around you are sacred, that holidays can be re-sacralized through conscious attention and gratitude, that ordinary life can become luminous if we practice with the understanding that embodiment itself is the ground of awakening, not an obstacle to it.

Where to go from here

To deepen this exploration, engage with Allimore's books Women of Wisdom and Feeding Your Demons, which weave together Buddhist psychology and the wisdom of the feminine. Seek out teachings on female deities—Tara, Simhamuka, Prajna Paramita—not as historical curiosities but as living wisdom beings. Practice in community, especially in spaces that honor both masculine and feminine principles. Listen to the voices of women teachers emerging in Western Buddhism, and if you are a man, ask yourself how you can support rather than overshadow them. The sacred feminine is not the property of women; it is a principle of reality that all humans must honor and embody to help restore balance to ourselves and our world.

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[0:01] hello and thank you for joining us my

[0:05] name is Travis newbell I live and work

[0:07] here at Shambhala Mountain Center

[0:09] we are really excited to be hosting

[0:12] wisdom rising and exploration of the

[0:15] divine feminine in Buddhism which will

[0:18] be a four-day Festival five days a

[0:23] September 25th through the 29th of this

[0:27] year 2015 and we're going to have

[0:30] several really wonderful powerful female

[0:35] Buddhist teachers leading that Retreat

[0:38] including llama sultram aleone

[0:41] who I'm very privileged to have on the

[0:44] line today for some conversation related

[0:47] to the topic of the retreat

[0:50] in case you're not familiar Lamas is a

[0:53] former none in the Tibetan Buddhist

[0:55] tradition one of the first Western

[0:57] Buddhist teachers she's known as a

[0:59] profound and Lucid teacher who

[1:01] skillfully combines both psychological

[1:03] and

[1:05] spiritual insights type internationally

[1:07] since 1982 she is the founder of Terra

[1:10] mandala and international advisoryana

[1:12] Buddhist community based in Pagosa

[1:14] Springs Colorado where I believe she's

[1:16] joining us from today and she's also an

[1:19] author of titles such as women of wisdom

[1:23] and feeding your demons ancient wisdom

[1:26] for resolving inner conflict so Lama

[1:28] thank you so much for taking the time to

[1:30] join us today and have some discussion

[1:33] it's an honor to be here with you

[1:36] my pleasure

[1:39] so I thought we might begin our

[1:42] conversation by exploring

[1:45] um

[1:46] you know what is the uh what the is the

[1:50] topic of wisdom rising and also just uh

[1:53] uh some of the important but being not

[1:58] so well understood or uh a topic that I

[2:03] think a lot of people are curious about

[2:04] which is the topic of the divine

[2:07] feminine in Buddhism so I wonder if you

[2:09] may share what your understanding of

[2:12] what that might mean is and how we might

[2:15] relate to that

[2:16] okay

[2:19] well maybe I'll begin with the title

[2:22] wisdom Rising reawaken the sacred

[2:24] feminine

[2:26] and then we can talk a little more

[2:28] directly about the divine feminine and

[2:30] what it is

[2:34] so the title of the conference wisdom

[2:36] Rising reawaken the sacred feminine

[2:41] has to do with a movement that's really

[2:45] happening

[2:46] all over the world it's happening within

[2:49] Buddhism but not only within Buddhism

[2:52] and I've been working with Eve ensler

[2:55] the author of The Vagina Monologues and

[2:59] various other plays and she's very

[3:01] active in terms of the feminine

[3:04] uh with this

[3:07] idea of wisdom Rising reawaken the

[3:10] sacred feminine

[3:11] because our world is out of balance and

[3:15] we know that

[3:16] we know that ecologically we're out of

[3:19] balance our lives are out of balance

[3:22] and

[3:25] not everyone recognizes that gender

[3:28] inequality

[3:30] is a big part of why we're out of

[3:33] balance and I think particularly in a

[3:36] sort of more liberated Western context

[3:38] we don't realize how much of the world

[3:41] is really out of balance and

[3:44] so when it says

[3:47] re-awaken the sacred feminine that means

[3:50] that the sacred feminine at one time was

[3:53] awake

[3:54] and in fact it was and in terms of

[3:57] Adriana Buddhism

[3:59] the tantric period which began around

[4:02] 700

[4:04] and in India ran to around 1200 was

[4:08] really within the Buddhist tradition the

[4:12] time when the feminine really entered

[4:15] Buddhism

[4:17] it had entered to some extent during the

[4:20] Mahayana period with prashna paramita

[4:22] who was considered to be

[4:25] feminine

[4:27] although really pressure parameter of

[4:30] course is without gender because it is

[4:33] wisdom but she was identified as

[4:37] feminine and also she was identified as

[4:42] having

[4:43] wisdom capacity and so that began in the

[4:48] Mahayana period

[4:50] and then in the vagiana period it

[4:56] developed a lot more

[4:57] and we started to see female Buddhas

[5:01] um

[5:01] we started to see dakinis

[5:05] um female

[5:06] deities such as Tara and baji yogini Sim

[5:11] hamuka and so on and that

[5:15] presence of the feminine in Buddhism

[5:19] brought a lot of other things some of

[5:23] which were

[5:25] dance poetry sacred sexuality

[5:30] working with transforming rather than

[5:35] repressing the five poisons and so on

[5:38] and so within within Buddhism we

[5:41] actually have this

[5:43] and so we need to

[5:48] reawaken it and so part of what wisdom

[5:51] Rising will be doing

[5:53] is

[5:54] working with that idea although

[5:59] uh the sacred feminine has continued to

[6:03] be present within bajriana Buddhism

[6:06] once it went to Tibet it went into a

[6:10] very patriarchal culture and structure

[6:14] and so these huge male monastic

[6:18] institutions

[6:20] and pretty much all of the teachers were

[6:23] male

[6:24] you know if if I say that people say oh

[6:28] no no what about yeshuisokyo unless you

[6:30] Clapton and you know and then at the end

[6:32] of the fifth finger they run out

[6:36] you know who these women teachers were

[6:40] and so

[6:43] kind of interesting because the there's

[6:45] the theory of the

[6:48] um

[6:50] Union of masculine and feminine uh level

[6:54] of equality you see it in the images

[6:58] um tonkers and so on but in actuality

[7:01] sociologically it was not present and it

[7:06] it hasn't been present in Buddhism as it

[7:09] has come to the West either

[7:11] so

[7:13] uh

[7:16] yes you know I mean it has changed in

[7:19] the west that certainly there's

[7:22] many Western Buddhist teachers now who

[7:25] are women

[7:27] um and and also men who are supportive

[7:30] of the Sacred feminine within uh Western

[7:33] Buddhist teachers

[7:34] but there's still a long way to go and

[7:37] so the conference will be

[7:39] exploring

[7:42] what that means

[7:44] and so then your other question was what

[7:48] is the divine feminine what do you mean

[7:49] by that

[7:52] you know it's funny because

[7:54] when I wrote women of wisdom I wrote a

[7:57] piece on the dakini principle

[8:00] and

[8:03] one of the qualities of the dakini is

[8:09] being ineffable

[8:11] and so

[8:17] the to try to speak

[8:20] about the sacred feminine

[8:24] is beyond words and so whenever I'm

[8:28] asked to say well what do you mean by

[8:30] the divine feminine there's this kind of

[8:32] blank

[8:33] space and in a sense that's really what

[8:37] it is it's this the kind of openness

[8:40] uh openness with presence

[8:43] and we we find that in Project

[8:47] already that uh she is

[8:52] ineffable inconceivable and

[8:56] unexplainable which that that's that's

[8:58] those are the epitots that are

[9:01] follow uh president paramita in the

[9:05] beginning of the heart Sutra

[9:08] however even though she is ineffable we

[9:13] can try to talk about her

[9:16] so one of the things you find with the

[9:19] sacred feminine is

[9:22] a

[9:24] a sense of the

[9:26] preciousness

[9:28] and the sacredness of embodiment

[9:33] religions that are oriented toward the

[9:37] male toward male figures and

[9:41] um

[9:42] the Divine masculine and God and so on

[9:46] have a tendency to

[9:49] sacralize

[9:52] a

[9:54] spiritual presence

[9:57] which is

[10:00] not embodied it's up and out it's

[10:03] somewhere else

[10:05] and nature and women have been

[10:08] considered

[10:09] to be not only not part of that but in

[10:14] many cases obstacles

[10:17] to to reach that sort of up there and

[10:21] out there spiritual State and in fact

[10:24] the Buddha himself uh was

[10:28] um somewhat that way in the sense that

[10:31] his teaching was how do we get out of

[10:35] this mess cessation is the definition of

[10:41] Nirvana cessation of suffering and so

[10:45] even within Buddhism there can be that

[10:48] tendency to see embodiment and what we

[10:52] call samsara as the problem

[10:56] whereas whenever there's presence of the

[10:59] Sacred feminine which happened in the

[11:01] tantric period and in Buddhism

[11:04] there is a sacralization of embodiment

[11:09] and that's why in vagina we have sacred

[11:12] sexuality also because the body the

[11:17] senses and so on are seen to be vehicles

[11:21] for Liberation rather than something

[11:24] that you need to get Beyond and sort of

[11:26] leave this body and get into the Divine

[11:30] somehow

[11:32] and so that's one of the things that you

[11:34] find within the sacred feminine or the

[11:37] divine feminine in pretty much anywhere

[11:39] you find it you find a sacralization of

[11:43] life

[11:45] and so life is not a problem that you

[11:49] need to get out of

[11:51] into some other kind of freedom but

[11:53] really something to enter more fully

[11:56] into

[11:57] in order

[11:59] to reach the sacred

[12:03] so that's one of the aspects of the

[12:05] Sacred feminine another is a sense of

[12:08] connectedness

[12:10] and you know in in Buddhism we tend to

[12:13] um

[12:15] talk about how attachment is bad

[12:19] attachment is the problem

[12:21] it's the second Noble Truth right

[12:24] however

[12:27] when you have the presence of the

[12:28] feminine you have a

[12:32] valuing of connectedness of relationship

[12:38] relationship is also sacred and

[12:41] so that's kind of an interesting

[12:44] difference and it's something I think is

[12:46] that's really interesting to explore

[12:48] what's the difference between attachment

[12:52] grasping and craving and connectedness

[12:56] appreciation of

[12:59] relationship and not only between humans

[13:03] but between humans and animals and

[13:06] humans and nature

[13:09] so pretty much universally around the

[13:13] world when uh

[13:15] when the masculine has dominated

[13:18] religion there has been a

[13:21] degradation of nature

[13:25] and so

[13:27] we have that we're living with the

[13:30] results of that we're living with the

[13:33] Christian idea that this all this is

[13:37] here for man to use

[13:39] you know we we call it the environment

[13:43] uh as though it was something like

[13:46] there's the main thing which is humans

[13:47] and then there's the environment or we

[13:50] call the minerals and so on resources

[13:53] like like they're there for us to use

[13:56] and abuse as we like and women were

[13:59] treated in the same way

[14:01] the fate of women and the fate of nature

[14:03] historically has has gone together

[14:07] so in order to come into wholeness as uh

[14:13] a human race

[14:15] we need to reactivate that half that has

[14:20] been in some sense deactivated

[14:22] disempowered

[14:25] and not value and so

[14:31] the within Buddhism that would be a

[14:37] um a more tantric view actually probably

[14:41] in the sense of the valuing of skillful

[14:46] means and wisdom

[14:48] and also as you may know in in vagiana

[14:51] the 14th downfall of the fajriana

[14:55] practitioner is to degrade women in any

[14:58] way and to not see women as the

[15:02] embodiment of wisdom

[15:05] and so those are some of the things that

[15:09] we will look at and explore

[15:12] in the conference

[15:15] [Music]

[15:16] and so what you're describing is uh

[15:21] this is a huge shift that I think a lot

[15:23] of people

[15:24] intuitively long for people of all uh

[15:28] across the span of of gender identities

[15:32] and everything and

[15:34] um whether you're talking about the

[15:36] conferences that it's a step in it's

[15:39] starting to

[15:40] um uh maybe dig our feet in a little to

[15:44] create this shift I wonder if there's

[15:47] anything else that you may say about

[15:49] um how

[15:51] uh you know individually or as

[15:54] communities

[15:55] um uh what can we do to bring about this

[15:59] shift in a daily way or in a more uh in

[16:04] bigger systemic ways or

[16:07] like what do we do

[16:11] yeah well there's

[16:14] there's a variety of different

[16:17] ways and skillful means in order to do

[16:22] this

[16:23] one of the ways is to

[16:29] experience interconnectedness

[16:33] to not treat the world as something that

[16:37] we need to get out of

[16:39] to not see our spiritual path as an

[16:43] escape route

[16:44] but instead to see it as a way to enter

[16:48] more deeply into a sacred relationship

[16:51] with each other and with our world

[16:55] and

[16:57] within rajyana we have female deities

[17:02] so practicing men and women both

[17:06] practice let's say Tara practice

[17:10] it's one of the principal practices of

[17:13] telling us a Dalai Lama

[17:14] and So within bajriana when you activate

[17:19] I guess you could say at some level in

[17:21] archetype

[17:23] a female archetype within your own

[17:25] psyche like body yogini or

[17:29] Tara

[17:31] another female deity that is you know

[17:34] that's a way to

[17:36] embody because you visualize yourself as

[17:39] that deity in most practices or in some

[17:43] is in front of you but in most practices

[17:46] let's say you are so that will naturally

[17:51] bring forth the sacred feminine in the

[17:54] psyche of that person

[17:56] and if you're doing a practice like that

[17:59] let's say at least an hour a day maybe

[18:01] hours a day that that brings that

[18:05] sort of inner anima figure

[18:09] that activates that within

[18:11] um

[18:12] men and women equally

[18:16] so that's one way another way is to

[18:21] treat your life as sacred that the

[18:24] objects around you are sacred that the

[18:28] events uh in life such as the seasons of

[18:31] the year

[18:33] um

[18:35] holidays and so on that those

[18:38] are times when we enter

[18:41] a deeper relationship

[18:44] with our world

[18:45] and so to Mark those changes let's say

[18:50] in in equinoxes solstices the lunar

[18:53] cycle

[18:55] um

[18:56] within my family for example we we've

[18:59] sort of re-sacralized holidays that

[19:04] I know

[19:06] in our world and generally As Americans

[19:08] we we have these we have holidays but

[19:12] we don't enter them as sacred events for

[19:16] example

[19:17] Thanksgiving

[19:20] is basically seen as an eating holiday

[19:22] where you just

[19:25] over e

[19:27] watch with Paul you know

[19:30] um

[19:32] and so for example in my family we

[19:37] we focus on gratitude on that day

[19:40] and we do a gratitude Circle

[19:43] within the family and talk about what

[19:46] we're grateful for

[19:47] and then whatever we're eating really

[19:49] try to

[19:51] connect to all those

[19:53] beings that were part of

[19:56] creating whatever

[19:58] we're eating and so

[20:02] taking just things that we normally do

[20:08] um like a holiday like that or getting

[20:11] up in the morning

[20:14] um just life

[20:16] to to to consider that as sacred and not

[20:19] think okay now I'm gonna go practice

[20:22] and uh

[20:24] and that's the sacred part and then I'll

[20:26] get back I'll be back up to normal soon

[20:30] um

[20:31] so

[20:35] the other thing about uh the feminine in

[20:38] Buddhism is its relationship to space

[20:43] talked about this he he said the

[20:45] feminine principle is like putting

[20:47] makeup on space

[20:50] and um so the space element is

[20:56] a great mother

[20:58] in Buddhism and so it is she is

[21:02] emptiness itself

[21:04] which is the ground of being

[21:07] in varyana we

[21:10] we call her samantavadri

[21:15] and so then

[21:18] the masculine at that level is the

[21:22] recognition

[21:24] of that ground of being

[21:26] when awareness turns and recognizes its

[21:30] own source

[21:32] which is the ground of being which is

[21:34] emptiness

[21:35] when that cognizance recognizes

[21:38] emptiness that's the union of masculine

[21:41] and feminine or Samantha padra and

[21:44] Samantha Padre

[21:46] in that Union is Awakening

[21:52] is it is Liberation and that's why they

[21:54] are a symbol Samantha bhadra and

[21:56] Samantha badri in Union

[21:59] are representing the primordial mind

[22:04] or liberated by Morty online

[22:08] and so that that quality of space

[22:13] which is all pervasive

[22:16] is something that we can develop a

[22:19] relationship with to

[22:21] to be comfortable

[22:23] with emptiness

[22:25] which is not so easy really

[22:28] and to and to learn to not only be

[22:31] comfortable but be able to rest in it

[22:34] to relax and to into that

[22:38] ineffable vast open empty

[22:43] yet cognizant space

[22:46] and so that's also part of

[22:50] the sacred feminine

[22:52] in Buddhism

[22:54] another aspect is the dakini principle

[22:59] which uh trombucha also

[23:02] spoke about and I wrote a piece in women

[23:05] of wisdom my first book

[23:08] where I quote him

[23:10] saying

[23:13] the dakini

[23:15] plays with you she plays with your life

[23:19] and she pulls the rug out from under you

[23:24] you may have I've heard that or seen

[23:26] that

[23:27] so the dakini principle

[23:30] is another aspect of the feminine that

[23:33] leads to

[23:36] Awakening but often in a more playful

[23:39] way

[23:40] or she acts as almost like a spiritual

[23:44] midwife

[23:47] and the dakini will appear

[23:50] at transitional moments in your life

[23:54] and usually push you to the next level

[23:58] not always in a comfortable way not

[24:01] always in the way that you would like it

[24:03] to happen

[24:04] um but she'll come in and

[24:07] um

[24:08] poke prod pull the rug out and then open

[24:12] you

[24:15] to emptiness and then push you to the

[24:19] next level of recognition

[24:22] so there's lots of levels also at the

[24:24] dakini principle and hubby we don't have

[24:26] time to talk about that here but it is

[24:29] something very interesting and quite

[24:31] unique

[24:32] uh in vagina Buddhism and

[24:37] we'll be talking about her at the

[24:39] conference for sure

[24:44] definitely I think clear to myself and

[24:47] anyone who maybe tuned into this just

[24:50] uh

[24:52] how Grand and vast of a topic this is

[24:56] and how you know any piece of it could

[24:58] be

[24:59] easily opened up into a a five-day

[25:02] retreat

[25:04] um and how there are ways in the

[25:07] tradition of really going deep into it

[25:09] such as some of the practices you

[25:12] mentioned

[25:14] um for now I wonder if there's any uh

[25:17] contemplation or short guided meditation

[25:20] that you made lead us in didn't they

[25:22] allow us to uh to touch in with what

[25:26] you've been describing this ineffable

[25:30] um you get cognizant or vast empty

[25:34] um

[25:35] sacred feminine quality

[25:45] well there's right and different things

[25:48] that we could do

[25:54] I think maybe we could just do a short

[25:57] um Tara practice

[26:00] uh Tara is a deity that doesn't require

[26:03] retirement

[26:05] she's considered to be very accessible

[26:08] and

[26:10] um

[26:11] and Powerful

[26:12] so

[26:14] maybe we could do a short

[26:16] visualization of ourselves as Tara and

[26:20] feeling that divine feminine in her own

[26:23] body

[26:24] and then

[26:26] get a little better for me yeah

[26:30] yes please

[26:34] okay so

[26:36] if you're sitting

[26:38] in a quiet place where you're able to

[26:40] meditate

[26:42] then you might Begin by closing your

[26:44] eyes and

[26:47] imagining that your own body

[26:52] becomes a female body

[26:56] and this female body is made of light

[27:00] green

[27:03] and so it's not a normal body with

[27:08] intestines in the heart and so on it's a

[27:11] luminous green body

[27:13] and your

[27:16] energy

[27:17] is an energy of compassion

[27:21] and that compassion is radiating out

[27:25] from your body

[27:27] as green light

[27:32] you have your

[27:34] right foot extended so you're stepping

[27:37] down into the world to benefit beings

[27:41] and your left hand is held at your heart

[27:44] and it's called the mudra of the three

[27:46] jewels

[27:48] and you're holding

[27:52] in your left hand a new cauliflower

[27:56] which is a

[27:59] kind of lotus a blue lotus

[28:02] with

[28:04] thousands of petals

[28:08] and so let's take a moment and actually

[28:11] feel ourselves as time

[28:15] not only think but feel

[28:18] ourselves embodying

[28:23] the green energy of active compassion

[28:27] and sending that out

[28:31] to the world emanating it

[28:35] and healing ourselves embodying

[28:41] green time

[28:57] and then we'll do a little bit of her

[28:59] her Mantra together as we do this

[29:03] imagine that the syllables of the Mantra

[29:07] are turning

[29:08] not your clockwise

[29:11] on a moon disc in your heart

[29:14] and from the Mantra chain

[29:19] the green light of compassion is

[29:21] emanating

[29:23] and perhaps you you know someone who's

[29:25] suffering well you can think of a

[29:28] situation in the world where

[29:31] there's a need for compassion

[29:34] and

[29:38] as we do the Mantra you can send it to

[29:41] those people or that place

[29:44] and also just generally sending it out

[29:46] to all beings

[29:50] it's beautiful green light

[29:53] a fast moving

[29:56] passion tomorrow is known as the Swift

[29:59] one

[30:01] she's a rapid responder

[30:04] her Mantra is

[30:14] so this thing is

[30:17] [Music]

[30:36] foreign

[30:40] [Music]

[30:42] good as well

[30:53] it is

[30:58] [Music]

[31:14] who it is

[31:17] [Music]

[31:30] and then imagine that your own body

[31:33] as Tara

[31:36] dissolves into

[31:39] the Mantra Circle in your heart

[31:43] and her seat syllable Tom which is at

[31:46] the center

[31:48] of your heart chakra

[31:51] your whole body dissolves into that

[31:54] tongue

[31:56] and then the tongue also deserves

[32:02] and restaurants that are present after

[32:04] the dissolution of that time

[32:28] in Monroe dedicate the Merit at the end

[32:34] the positive

[32:38] energy that we've generated in this

[32:40] practice

[32:41] offered out

[32:43] to benefit all beings

[32:45] everyone

[33:00] thank you

[33:02] [Music]

[33:06] thank you so much for that

[33:10] foreign

[33:12] if there's anything

[33:15] else that you'd like to say to

[33:17] the audience of this uh

[33:21] this interview

[33:24] um

[33:26] on the topic of this sacred feminine

[33:29] that you haven't said already or related

[33:31] to The Retreat or

[33:33] uh or anything else related to your

[33:35] experience of

[33:37] um

[33:38] your position of leadership in the song

[33:40] go or just anything at all that you feel

[33:43] like you didn't uh this didn't come out

[33:46] yet that you'd like to say

[33:52] there's a lot of ways that

[33:57] feminine is

[34:01] being activated in the world

[34:06] however

[34:08] there's not so many ways that the sacred

[34:12] feminine

[34:15] is being worked with we're working with

[34:17] laws

[34:18] with uh creating more

[34:22] equality in society

[34:25] there's work like the work of the events

[34:28] or

[34:29] with The Vagina Monologues and

[34:33] v-day and stopping violence against

[34:35] women

[34:37] however

[34:40] in order to really make the change

[34:46] and find the balance that we need

[34:50] we need the sacred family

[34:55] even if we get

[34:58] equality

[34:59] violence stops

[35:02] funds against women stops

[35:06] and so on all those outer changes occur

[35:10] we need to find what it is what is

[35:14] unique about the feminine

[35:16] what is the gift

[35:19] of that

[35:21] that we're lacking

[35:24] presently

[35:25] and how can we reawaken or reactivate

[35:30] that inner level

[35:33] of the feminine that we lack

[35:36] as a society and individually

[35:41] this is a discussion that I've had with

[35:43] Eve because she's so politically active

[35:48] and for many women and men who are

[35:52] activists

[35:54] they get really exhausted

[35:57] and they don't have a way to regenerate

[36:03] themselves

[36:05] and so to have the spiritual connection

[36:11] with the sacred feminine and to know how

[36:14] to bring that forth

[36:16] is very restorative

[36:19] and gives energy

[36:22] to those who are activists and not only

[36:26] to activists but to everybody and so

[36:29] what I really want to emphasize in the

[36:33] conference

[36:35] is finding ways like just a little

[36:38] meditation that we did now but there's

[36:41] all kinds of other methods of

[36:44] Reawakening the sacred feminine

[36:46] experientially not just theoretically

[36:50] but how can we do this experientially

[36:53] we recognize that I think everyone

[36:56] recognizes this lack of balance that we

[36:59] have

[37:00] and the dominance of the masculine in

[37:03] the world but how do we have the inner

[37:05] experience of that

[37:08] and then from that inner experience we

[37:11] can create

[37:13] a genuine

[37:16] equality because we don't want just

[37:20] women to be like men you know like we

[37:24] that's not

[37:25] you know to have women leaders who are

[37:28] just like male leaders

[37:30] who

[37:31] um

[37:34] I mean of course women can be like male

[37:36] leaders but I believe that women really

[37:39] have a unique gift and that if they can

[37:42] bring that with them

[37:44] um

[37:46] as they become leaders

[37:49] then we'll have something new in the

[37:51] world and we need something new and this

[37:54] is very difficult because women who are

[37:56] active politically and and so on they

[38:00] have to go into kind of that game that

[38:03] um that has been created by a

[38:06] patriarchal society and it's very easy

[38:09] for them to lose themselves as women

[38:12] and and they they might not even lose

[38:15] themselves they might never have really

[38:17] known it like what is this and so

[38:21] I think that's an important thing to

[38:23] know and so the conference will really

[38:26] be at least from my point of view how

[38:28] can we know this experientially how can

[38:31] we develop it within ourselves to help

[38:34] bring the balance that we know that the

[38:37] world needs

[38:42] thank you so much for the you know for

[38:45] the ideas and the wisdom that you've

[38:46] shared here today and

[38:49] the conference has felt like something

[38:51] you know to us your Jamal amount Center

[38:53] that's really important and uh the

[38:57] weight of that feels more real after

[39:00] having this discussion with you so

[39:03] um

[39:04] I feel more inspired and I think that

[39:06] probably people who are tuning in will

[39:09] also

[39:10] um just to mention again in case uh

[39:14] people

[39:16] didn't hear the first time the

[39:19] conference is called wisdom rising and

[39:21] exploration of the divine feminine in

[39:23] Buddhism it's happening here at shimbala

[39:26] Mountain Center from September 25th

[39:29] through the 29th this fall of 2015 and

[39:35] Lama silter alioni will be joined by uh

[39:39] many teachers including venerables Dr

[39:42] pananavati acharya Judith simmer Brown

[39:45] acharya Susan Shea

[39:48] um and we're really looking forward to

[39:49] hosting all these uh amazing teachers

[39:52] and all of you who may come to join us

[39:57] so I thank you all for tuning in and

[40:01] being part of this discussion and I

[40:04] invite you all to come here and deepen

[40:06] into it further and

[40:10] um and I thank you again so much Lama

[40:12] for uh for taking the time today to to

[40:16] meet with uh all of us and and share

[40:22] my pleasure Travis thanks you for the

[40:25] interview and it's it's nice that you as

[40:27] a man are doing the interview because I

[40:30] think

[40:31] this is really something that that we

[40:33] all need and

[40:36] um

[40:36] when men understand that they can

[40:41] bring that forth in themselves and find

[40:43] that balance within themselves that's

[40:44] also important

[40:46] so thanks for doing the interview

[40:49] yes uh it was my honor and I really uh

[40:53] look forward to the conference and

[40:54] engaging in

[40:56] um

[40:57] you know more practices like you offered

[41:00] today and uh hearing uh getting more of

[41:05] a sense of the the depth and power of

[41:07] the discussion and the possibilities for

[41:09] going forward so

[41:11] um yes thank you again and I'm so glad

[41:14] to to be the one to do it

[41:17] [Music]

[41:23] so yes on that note uh we'll sign off

[41:26] here today

[41:27] um

[41:28] uh please stay tuned to our website

[41:32] shamolamountain.org and

[41:35] um you know for more conversations like

[41:37] this

[41:38] and please check out Lama silcham

[41:40] alioni's work you can find uh

[41:43] terramandala has a website with all

[41:47] sorts of information and points you

[41:49] towards teachings and more resources

[41:53] um to connect fully with llama sultram's

[41:56] wisdom

[41:58] so uh stay tuned thank you for tuning in

[42:01] today and we'll be in touch more soon

[42:05] bye

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In Buddhism, the sacred feminine refers to qualities and principles including the sacralization of embodiment, the value of connectedness and relationship, and spaciousness or emptiness. Rather than viewing the body and world as obstacles to transcendence, the feminine principle honors them as vehicles for awakening and sacred in themselves.
The divine feminine began entering Buddhism during the Mahayana period through Prajna Paramita, the Perfection of Wisdom, identified as feminine. It flourished during the tantric period, approximately 700–1200 CE in India, when female Buddhas, dakinis, and deities like Tara became central to the teachings and practice.
When Buddhism traveled from India to Tibet around the 11th–12th centuries, it encountered a patriarchal feudal society. The monastic institutions that preserved Tibetan Buddhism became almost entirely male-dominated, and despite the teachings theoretically preserving the union of masculine and feminine principles, the lived practice became male-centered and the feminine largely disappeared institutionally.
Tantric Buddhism, which emerged around 700 CE in India, views the body, senses, sexuality, and the world itself as vehicles for liberation rather than obstacles to escape. It sacralizes embodied life and the feminine principle, contrasting with earlier Buddhist teachings that emphasized cessation and renunciation of the samsaric world.
Buddhist teaching traditionally identifies attachment, grasping, and craving as root causes of suffering. However, the sacred feminine principle values genuine connectedness and relationship—to people, animals, and nature—as inherently sacred and precious, distinct from the clinging that creates suffering.
Key female deities include Tara (known for accessibility and compassion), Prajna Paramita (the Perfection of Wisdom), Bhagavati, and Simhamuka. These are not ornamental but central wisdom beings; Tara in particular is widely accessible for practitioners seeking to embody the sacred feminine.

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