Iyanla Vanzant
American inspirational speaker, life coach, and Yoruba priestess (an iyalawo of the Ifá tradition), one of the most influential African-American spiritual voices of the late twentieth and early twenty-first centuries. Born in 1953 in a Brooklyn taxi cab and surviving a childhood marked by abuse and early motherhood, she went on to become a public defender, an inner-city minister, an Oprah Winfrey Show favorite, and the host of OWN's Iyanla: Fix My Life. Her books — Acts of Faith, In the Meantime, Yesterday, I Cried, One Day My Soul Just Opened Up — have sold millions of copies and are particularly beloved in the African-American spiritual tradition for their unflinching honesty about generational trauma, self-love, and the work of healing.
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Quotes by Iyanla Vanzant
100 quotes“Go inside. Everything you need is already there.”
“You cannot give what you do not have. Give to yourself first.”
“Don't ask why. Ask what next.”
“Your soul does not know rejection. Your soul knows love.”
“Stop arguing for your limitations.”
“Crying does not make you weak. Pretending does.”
“Your worth is not up for negotiation.”
“Stop expecting others to give you what only you can give yourself.”
“The work is not glamorous. The work is consistent.”
“Spirit always knows the way. Stop asking the mind.”
“Your trauma is not your destiny.”
“You are allowed to outgrow people, places, and things.”
“Sister, the only way out is through. Walk through.”
“Pain does not last forever, even when it feels like it will.”
“You are the medicine your ancestors prayed for.”
“Joy is not a luxury. Joy is your birthright.”
“You don't have to know how. You only have to know yes.”
“Love yourself even when you are not at your best. Especially then.”
“Whatever wants to leave, let it go. Whatever wants to stay, welcome it.”
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