Bessel van der Kolk

Bessel van der Kolk

Dutch-American psychiatrist whose forty-year career studying the effects of trauma on the body, brain, and human relationships has reshaped the modern field of integrative healing. Born in The Hague in 1943 to a family marked by the German occupation of the Netherlands, he has been a clinician and researcher at Boston University and Harvard, and is the founder of the Trauma Center in Brookline, Massachusetts. His 2014 book The Body Keeps the Score — combining clinical case studies, neuroscience, and the somatic, contemplative, and creative therapies that traditional talk therapy cannot reach — has sold over three million copies, spent more than 200 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list, and become the foundational text of the contemporary trauma-informed movement that now shapes therapy, education, and contemplative practice.

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Quotes by Bessel van der Kolk

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“Healing requires new experiences in the body.”
newThe Body Keeps the Score
“Trauma is the body's frozen no.”
frozenThe Body Keeps the Score
“Recovery is the slow restoration of yes.”
recoveryThe Body Keeps the Score
“To breathe consciously is to begin to heal.”
breathThe Body Keeps the Score
“The vagus nerve is the bridge between body and brain.”
vagusThe Body Keeps the Score
“Safety is the precondition of all healing.”
safetyThe Body Keeps the Score
“In safety, the body remembers how to play.”
playThe Body Keeps the Score
“Play is essential, not optional, for the recovery of trauma.”
playThe Body Keeps the Score
“Children play their way back to integration.”
childrenThe Body Keeps the Score
“Adults need play too. We have forgotten this.”
adultsThe Body Keeps the Score
“Trauma is the inability to be present with yourself.”
presenceThe Body Keeps the Score
“Healing is the slow restoration of presence.”
presenceThe Body Keeps the Score
“What is felt cannot be hidden. The body always knows.”
bodyThe Body Keeps the Score
“Many traumatized people develop a numb relationship with their bodies.”
numbnessThe Body Keeps the Score
“To feel again is the great work of recovery.”
feelingThe Body Keeps the Score
“Mindfulness is not a luxury. For the traumatized, it is medicine.”
mindfulnessThe Body Keeps the Score
“Listen to your body. The body is always speaking.”
listeningThe Body Keeps the Score
“The simplest practice is to feel your feet on the ground.”
feetThe Body Keeps the Score
“Trauma teaches the body that the world is dangerous. Practice teaches it otherwise.”
worldThe Body Keeps the Score
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